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Let the moment come to you


 After a marathon of workshops related to movement, breathing and meditation, I found myself stuck with a phrase: "Let the moment come to you". This was the motto of  class related to how present we are in our lives. The point was that we either think to our beloved and happy past or we plan our future, but we never think or now, how I am moving and breathing, how aware I am of my thoughts, my presence. 

The phrase "let the moment come to you" has so many meanings. Have you ever thought of a goal you tried to reach with despair and just when you let it go it happens? I remember like yesterday that all I wanted to do in my 20's was to live abroad. I was so eager to see and explore another system, another world. My choice was to go abroad for studies. It took 3 years to get there. I got my IELTS certificate at the last moment for applications, so the first round of applications was just a trial. In the next round, I only got rejections. Somehow, by the time I got to my third round of applications I was in doubt I will be accepted. Then, it happened. It came in a moment when I was ready, I did my full research on how to handle all the details.

It is what also happened in my personal life. My last relationship started by serendipity. We met through our common friends at different parties. We had a lot of fun and we started hanging out as friends. It happened in a moment when all I wanted was to concentrate on my personal developing. I had a personal trainer and I was working out at least three times per week. I started changing my diet and my food habits. I was studying NLP and I had little free time. We just started as friends and hanging out together with every occasion we had. Somehow, it entered my life when I accepted that I am single. Single doesn't mean alone and it is another story to tell. 

Let the moment come to you and be surprised how everything falls into place. 

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