On Management and Life

 I went to Dali exhibition that takes place in Bucharest until May at ARCUB. I fell in love with the statues in the picture above. If I remember well it is a goddess and the mirror is s similar figure with all the pointy bones. One represents beauty and the other one shows the imperfections.  Before going into the Art Gallery, we passed through the crowded old town with people staying at restaurants and talking loudly. We passed through a table and I heard a guy yelling at another one: -Do you realize he stayed with a fat girl for seven years?  The other one replied: "It was like a redemption".  The guy replied: " It was more like 7 years in Tibet. At least in Tibet was drought." For one second I felt how rage invades my body. I struggled my entire life with extra kilograms. I was on the verge on going to him and punch him. I took a look at him. He was tall and had a couple of kilograms extra. I remembered that how we behave says more about ourselves than the person...

  Ironically, fears  don't allow us to live life fully and in the same time they come true one way or another. Any fear, conscious or unconscious, is like a chain we carry every day and we act in accordance to what we want to keep in our lives. If you don't confront the fear, you will live it. Actually, it paralyzes you. There was time when I lived in fear, in an unconscious way. A couple of years ago, I started working on myself by attending all modules of NLP (practitioner, master and coach). During that time, I started dating a friend. We started out as friends, spending time together and telling each other the deepest thoughts. It was the first relationship I started to live my emotions in an authentic way. The first six months up to one year it was good. I remember we took the time to discuss fears and issues that might appear in our first year of relationships. For every fear, there was a solution. In the same time, I started making small changes towards a healthy lifest...

   I have been meditating to the following question: How do I know I have forgave someone who hurt me? One person provided me with an insightful answer: I know I forgave a person when I think about them and I really wanna meet them and hug them and thank for the time we spent together. Another person offered a similar reply: You know you forgive someone when you may help them in times of need in spite of all the bad things that happened between you. Is it possible to have this with someone you deeply loved? We all had our break-ups and our loses when it comes to relationships. It is a process to forgive someone. Sometimes it is easier to forgive the person who hurt us then forgive ourselves for participating in the act of being hurt. We allowed the other person to hurt us. We were accessory to the crime. As part of my forgiveness process I used several methods: prayers, meditations, forgive and release phrases/rituals. At some point, I decided to listen Ho'oponopono meditation...