The Powerful Feminine

     This week I had a huge revelation. I always believed the feminine or women are the weakest people in the world. Why? The women are the one's to sacrifice for the family, the one's who give birth, the one's that have no say, while the man is the powerful one.

    It is fun that I never understood that the female energy goes for the long run. It takes 9 months to grow a human being in your body. It takes a lot of pain to take it out, if you give birth naturally. It takes a lifetime to love and educate the children. The woman is the alchemist of the family, transforms from the food to the emotions. 

    I never understood women who stayed in relationships where things were not glitter and pink all the time. In their strength they move forward for love, for family. She is also the one showing the man how their family would like. Somehow, when I think of feminine my thoughts go to my ex-boyfriend's mom.

    I remember I slept over to his house. He was still living for the parents. I was in a hurry that morning and I am not a breakfast person, but still she prepared a breakfast for myself. She put it in my purse. She was the feminine mix. Beauty, looks and just being.

     I also remember my discussion with my friend Cristina and she was all the time saying to me that the feminine just is. And explanation came later on when my mentor said to me: The woman is like art. She is beautiful, but one doesn't need to find immediate use of it. You may admire it, you may hate it, you may love it, but the woman is. Her power is in her choice.